"I love the color of wine, I have my father's hands, my mother's eyes, black hair, I'm a good boy." Meet eskhymos -- just one of our roundup of Gay.com studs who are over 40 and going strong ...

There are as many words for "self service" as there are ways to do it. What do you call it when you're spending "a little alone time," "walkin' the dog" or "tickling the pickle?" Tell us now!

Our sexpert has been noticing a lot of guys who are kept on the side like a buddy -- but with the added intrigue of money and clout and wealthy settings. Has this happened to you? How do you juggle more than one partner?

Playboy is launching a gay-oriented softcore cable video-on-demand channel. Wait till you read Time Warner's surprisingly explicit memo on what can and can't be depicted ...

The masterminds behind the club hit "Flawless," The Ones may just be the next club sensation. Watch the hot, naked video for "When We Get Together" now!